Teaching Your Kids About Sexuality

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:14

Discussing sexuality with your children might be challenging, but it’s a vital part of parenting. In an era when society pushes varying perspectives on sexuality, grounding your parenting in God’s Truth is essential in your children becoming the men and women God desires them to be.

The Foundation of Teaching

The foundation of teaching about sexuality should be rooted in the belief that there is one God, who is the creator and authority of all sexuality. The Bible states, "So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them: male and female he created them" (Genesis 1:27). It later says, “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife and they become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). Gender and sexuality are a part of God’s perfect plan. Children need to know this is his good and beautiful design.

Take Action: Begin when your children are very young, normalizing discussions of their bodies and the differences between boys and girls, using anatomically correct language.

Impact of Technology

Advances in technology have made it easier for children to be exposed to explicit material at a younger age. It’s crucial to create an open, non-judgmental atmosphere at home where children can discuss their questions freely.

Take Action: Encourage your children to ask questions and share what they see or hear. Utilize resources to filter your home internet connection and monitor your child’s online activity.

Teachable Moments

Look for teachable moments to incorporate discussion of God’s design for men and women and healthy sexuality. Children learn better through repetition rather than a one-time, in-depth sex talk.

Take Action: When you have these conversations, always make sure to point everything back to the Truth that is found in God’s Word.

Countering Misinformation

Prepare your children for messages they might encounter that contradict Scripture. Encourage them to tell you when they see or hear such things so you can discuss it with them.

Take Action: Remain calm and answer honestly. Silence communicates that there is something taboo about human sexuality, which can lead to secrecy and shame.

Equip Yourself

To effectively guide your children, continually equip yourself with relevant resources. Organizations like Defend Young Minds and the God’s Design for Sex book series offer valuable content on such topics.