2 Corinthians 5:17 declares that anyone in Christ is a new creation: the old is gone and the new is here. Being raised in church, believing God exists, or calling yourself spiritual isn't the same as being transformed, and a real faith story has a clear before and after. The invitation is to know your own turning point and to look for that same evidence of new life in the person you date.

Luke 15:4-7 teaches us that God does not measure people by numbers—each lost person matters deeply to Him, and heaven rejoices when even one turns back to God. Because Jesus came after us with that same love, we can faithfully pursue and invite our one person while trusting God with the outcome.

1 Samuel 3:8-9 teaches us that God often uses wise, caring people to help us recognize His voice and grow closer to Him. Like Samuel, we can listen to trusted believers, ask questions, and learn from others as we grow in hearing and following God.

2 Corinthians 6:14-15 warns against being yoked together with unbelievers, and it's a word of protection, not restriction. It's easy to get dazzled by a few shiny features, but the most important question about the person you're dating is who is behind the wheel of their life. When two people pull in different spiritual directions, they end up going in circles, so don't let the shine make a decision only discernment should make.

Romans 10:13-15 teaches us that people hear the good news of Jesus because someone is willing to go, speak, and share it with them. Because someone once brought that good news to us, we can become the next link in the chain by courageously bringing it to someone else.

1 Samuel 3:5-6 teaches us through Samuel’s confusion that learning to recognize God’s voice can take time and practice. Like Samuel, we can keep listening and responding with a willing heart, trusting that God is patient with us as we learn to hear Him.

Psalm 139:13-16 says God knit you together in your mother's womb, thread by thread and detail by detail. Before you can date well or evaluate anyone else, you have to settle your own worth, and that worth was set by your Creator long before a salary, a following, or a mirror had a say. Identity has to come before intimacy, because no other person was designed to carry the weight of completing you.

Luke 5:27-32 teaches us through Levi that following Jesus does not mean hiding our faith from the people already in our lives; it can mean bringing them closer to Him. Like Levi, we can use the relationships and spaces we already have to invite others into Jesus’ presence and trust Him to do the transforming work.

1 Samuel 3:2-4 teaches us through Samuel’s story that we are never too young for God to know us, call us by name, and speak into our lives. Like Samuel, we can respond with a willing heart that says, “Here I am,” ready to listen whenever God calls.

Mark 2:1-5 teaches us through the faith of four determined friends that bringing someone to Jesus may require effort, sacrifice, and removing obstacles along the way. Our job is to faithfully help carry people closer to Him, trusting Jesus to see our faith and do the deeper work only He can do.